Yes, I'm been very lazy over the holidays and not posting. Just sitting on my fat ass, drinking egg nog and other adult beverages, eating Godiva chocolates and then some. But I'm back if only to file a short and tiny end-of-year chastity report on behalf of my beautiful hubwife Terrie.
In case you forgot 2020 was a leap year which means Terrie got to spend an extra day (or almost a full day) in chastity. Could there be a better gift for a submissive sissy cuckold?
There were 8,784 hours in 2020. The number of hours are important to both of us because she has to file a report on a daily basis indicating how many hours she was "in" and "out" of chastity, rounded to the nearest half hour. Each day there's a calculated percentage of the time in, a monthly percentage and a year-to-date percentage. If it sounds like a lot of work it really isn't. The spreadsheets are all set up to do the calculations.
I'm rather pleased to report that Terrie spent 99.17% of the time locked in her Holy Trainer, or 8711.5 hours out of a possible 8,784. Before you all start feeling sorry for her or think that I'm kind of sadist, I do allow her out of the cage very briefly for "supervised" showers and don't count that time "against" her.
But at the end of the day, I don't measure the effectiveness of a chastity regimen isn't measured solely by how much or how little time one spends "locked up." There are several other factors such as whether or not I'm getting the type of behavior I expect from her and is she sufficiently focused on the things I want her to be focused on.
I also keep track of how many orgasms she gets to enjoy. This year Terrie had 7 orgasms. Four of them occurred when she was out of her cage and the other three while locked. The number itself isn't necessarily indicative of her behavior (good or bad) or my pleasure or displeasure. It just is what it is.
Finding the optimal balance between pain/discipline and pleasure/reward or a submissive's "sweet spot" is something that's been pretty elusive for me. I just go with the flow now. And seven is a nice lucky number anyway.
I hope everyone has a great 2021!
One more thing, I've corresponded a few times with "Jane", the woman I mentioned in my blog post "From the Mailbag" on December 20th. She was very interested in some of your feedback and I've invited her to post here. She's thinking it over. I'm hoping she does but if not, I'll fill you in on her thoughts.
Diane