Thursday, April 30, 2020

Sissy Bra & Panty Sets

Checking through my bra and panty set collection I realize I don't have any that you would consider "plain", i.e. a matching white bra and panty.  Each of them has at least a little something fancy and feminine about them.  Some more than just a little.

But who wants a plain bra and panty set anyway?


sissy terri  💝

Wednesday, April 29, 2020

Alpha Women & Betaboy Reading

Still under stay-in-place? 

Looking for something to read?

Here's a recommendation...

Don't be afraid to share it with your wife or girlfriend.  Even if she doesn't know about your secret desires, don't you think it's about time she does?

The article on why more men are becoming more submissive provides some good insight into the variety of things that make us tick.  There's also some surprising stuff about why many more women are receptive to the idea.

Suggest your wife or girlfriend read the article "Does your husband wear panties?"  It might save you plenty of explaining things to her.  She'll get to read all the reasons why it happens and be better prepared for "the next step."

The chastity article was just so-so.  But consider that I've been locked for almost 5 1/2 years now.  Newbies or those curious about it might find it more interesting.

Happy reading.


sissy terrie  👄

Tuesday, April 28, 2020

A Violation of the Rules & A Spanking

Mistress doesn't read all of my posts, but She does keep an eye on the blog.  She might go weeks without reading it and when She does, just scan the titles and skim through the contents.  Other times She pays more attention.

Such was the case with last Friday's posting about punishment.

I'd just got home last night and was going through the mail when Mistress arrived shortly thereafter.  I stood there in the kitchen in a short sleeve striped shirt and my khakis.  She caught me in a clear violation for the rules.  I'm supposed to change into feminine attire as soon as I get home.

She dealt with it immediately.

She didn't even waste any time telling me to go get her crop.  After the "Pants down" She went upstairs to get it herself.

Instead of a spanking over her lap the thrashing took place while I was down on all fours in the kitchen, pants down around my ankles and only panties covering my tush.

The spanking hurt.  The crop hurts.

There wasn't the humiliation that comes with an audience, but there was the embarrassment that comes from being punished by Her for a violation of the rules.

I should know better.


sissy terrie  😢

Monday, April 27, 2020

Daddy's Girl

It was their 3rd anniversary and a special one.  The couple had been married 15 years but today was their "cuckolding" anniversary.  Three years ago to the day the wife had taken on a lover.  Despite some anxious moments and uncertainty in the first few months, both she and her sissy cuckold worked things out to the point where both were very happy with the situation.

In a dominant, teasing but kind way, the lover would often refer to the cuckold as "Daddy's girl."   The cuckold respected the new man in their life, and the Alpha male appreciated the respect. 

On this third anniversary, both the wife and cuckold received a beautiful gift from "Daddy."

The wife got a beautiful diamond ring.

The cuckold also got some jewelry to wear. 

The panties were the most beautiful and sissiest the cuckold had ever seen. 

"Thank you Daddy.  They're gorgeous" said the sissy.

"You're welcome" Daddy said with a smile.  "Now put them on for me.  Just the panties.  Nothing else." 

The sissy obeyed, stripped down to nothing except her pink chastity device and slipped the panties on in front of Daddy and her wife.

"Beautiful"  Daddy said.  "Now I want both of you to show your appreciation for your gifts.  Together."

The wife looked knowingly at her sissy and smiled.  They knew what Daddy wanted. 

In unison, the knelt in front of Daddy and together undid the belt on his pants.


sissy terrie

Sunday, April 26, 2020

An End to my Dry Spell

March was orgasm free, as were the last few weeks of February and the first twenty five days in April.  And this one even "came" cage free!  Hands free as well.

Can you guess how it happened?

Didn't take Mistress long to find my "p" spot.

I was most appreciative.  After all, it's only been 79 days.


💕💕💕 sissy terrie 💕💕💕

Saturday, April 25, 2020

Sissy Memories

An oldie but goody - memories of getting ready to serve Mistress and a few other kinky friends on our deck back in New England...

I believe the vintage apron was picked up while shopping for some antiques in Maine.

If it weren't for social distancing these days, I might be doing the same thing this Saturday evening here in the desert southwest.

Maybe soon.


sissy terrie 💋

Friday, April 24, 2020

Sissy Discipline - Does it Have to Hurt?

Ms. Kathy over at the blog Femdom 101 had a very insightful post about the need for punishment in a Female Led Relationship.   Here's an excerpt from the post:

"...there is a definite place for punishment.  Make no mistake about it, but femdom type relationships have a way of breaking down unless the wife is willing to punish. Without punishment men have a tendency to loose respect for the wife's authority in the marriage. In a metaphorical way a wife must be willing to wield the whip when necessary. In some marriages the whip is a physical reality. On the blog I have a tendency to stay away from comments related to spanking, but will acknowledge that spanking is an important element of many marriages. From this blog many of you know that my daughter has no issue with using the hairbrush on her husband's rear end."
To gain a great appreciation of the post, I suggest you read the whole thing along with the comments.

I've been the recipient of many a spanking over the course of our Female Led Marriage, too many to count.  I've never been into pain and neither has Diane.  The thrill of spanking for me comes entirely from first having to submit to on, if others are around having to submit to it in their presence and lastly any corner time or other form of public display of my punished bottom I might have to endure.  NONE of the enjoyment comes from  the pain of the spanking itself.

I recall a few instances when, playing with a small group of friends (three other couples where the other dominants were all males) each of the subs were put over their Mistress or Masters and spanked.  On one occasion when Diane hadn't brought any spanking implement, She used a wooden spoon that was available in the kitchen of our hosts.

The spoon stung and when the spanking was over my cheeks were reddened.  The panties and garter I was wearing provided no protection.  While the spanking wasn't severe at all, I absolutely hated the pain.  When it was over, I was allowed to kneel by Diane and watch the other female subs get theirs.

Two of the three received what I would call more severe spanking than mine, while the other's was about the same as me.  The two more severe spankings seemed like they would end up with some minor bruising or as one of the Masters called them "loving reminders."

Does real discipline have to hurt?  I would say it probably does.  The humiliation or embarrassment might serve as a deterrent but in all honesty, as difficult as it is those emotions also arouse and provide perverse pleasure to many subs.

I'd love to hear from others on this.  How severe has your discipline been?  Your spankings?  Feel free to share.


sissy terrie 👄

Thursday, April 23, 2020

Lacy Curves

Sexy isn't a size now is it?

Beautiful curves so elegantly displayed in this lovely white bodysuit.


sissy terrie 💗 

Tuesday, April 21, 2020

Devoted to Hair Curlers

The following headline though dated, piqued my interest.  Like the author, Amanda Platell from the Daily Mail, I too have been a "devotee" of hair curlers. 

How rollers ruined my romances: As Vogue declares hair curlers are the height of fashion, a cautionary tale from a lifelong devotee

Shortly before her wedding, the author gets some advice from her mom about how to have a successful marriage.  Almost as an afterthought, the mom adds "Oh, and never let your husband see you in curlers."

Hope you enjoy the article.

One other thing.  Never let your wife's lover see you in curlers either.  It can be pretty embarrassing.


sissy terrie

Monday, April 20, 2020

Morning Coffee

Texting her lover first thing in the morning...

...the cuckold captures the moment perfectly. 


sissy terrie

Sunday, April 19, 2020

The Beginnings...

Panties did it for me....

I don't think I'm the only one.


sissy terrie

Saturday, April 18, 2020

Sissy Maid Quarterly

It's unfortunate this magazine isn't published anymore.  It contained plenty of useful information for all sissy maids, from the novice to the very experienced.

With summer just around the corner Mistress will be expecting service by the pool.  She may even have a suitor joining her.


sissy terrie

Friday, April 17, 2020

18 Hours of Femininity

The Playtex name has been associated with quality bras and girdles for many years, at least as long as this sissy can remember.  Just hearing the word "Playtex" gives me some girly feelings.

If you sometime wear a bra for extended periods like a full day of femininity, there's not much better than the Playex "18 Hour bra" that comes in various styles and colors.

A great place to shop for the bra along with all types of lingerie and clothing is "Her Room."  I buy plenty of things from them.  Customer service is excellent and the company is very "CD friendly."

Her Room

This duo of pink and blue 18 hour bras would be a lovely addition to any sissy's bra collection.


sissy terrie

Thursday, April 16, 2020

Extra Sissy

Some days She insists I look more sissy than others.

There are special panties for those days.


sissy terrie

Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Baby Bumps

Am I the only sissy who dreams of this?

I would hope not.  Maternity fashions are so beautiful.


sissy terrie 💙

Tuesday, April 14, 2020

Cuckold Rules

Formalizing a Female Led Relationship, Wife Led Marriage or any type of lifestyle that involves some sort of D/s dynamic typically involves a set of clearly spelled out rules or some type of contract entered into willingly by the parties.

When a Wife Led Marriage like ours introduces cuckolding into the dynamic additional rules may come into play and/or the contract is amended. 

Here's a simple set of rules that might work for most cuckolds.

Ours was a bit more complex but I certainly don't want to complain about it.


sissy terrie

Monday, April 13, 2020

Sissy Dresses

Panties, bras, pantyhose, garters, girdles, corsets and to some extent even slips can be hidden under a male's regular clothing.  Their fondness for feminine things remains hidden to the public and their personal closely guarded secret.

But, when a male is made to wear a dress, he becomes much more vulnerable to an unexpected visitor or worse, to anyone who might see him if he's made to wear it in public.

And naturally, the more feminine or "sissier" the dress, the more shame, embarrassment and humiliation becomes possible.

My first such "shaming" took place in front of one of Mistress' very close lady friends who was that "unexpected visitor" one evening.  She was only unexpected to me since Mistress had fully arranged her visit that night.

The experience prepared me for the first time I had to wear something feminine for Diane's ex-lover Paul.


sissy terrie

Sunday, April 12, 2020

Happy Easter

Headed outside to look for some eggs....

Happy Easter to all my readers.


sissy terrie

Saturday, April 11, 2020

Pink Lace

Lavender Camille, a local sissy gurlfriend of mine (don't you love the name?) sent me a picture of these lovely panties the other day....

Having met LC I can attest that these panties are certainly her style.  Most of the lace panties I feature here are of the white lace variety.  This one happens to be 100% soft girly pink! 


Kisses LC...xox


sissy terri

Friday, April 10, 2020

Ruffled Chastity

I've not yet experienced my monthly orgasm for April.  In fact I didn't get to enjoy one in March either.

This coronavirus has kept both of us very busy and working extra hours, especially Mistress.  Even She's experienced fewer orgasms since this all began.  This also means that I've worshiped Her less often. 

I've gotten used to the lack of orgasms over the years.  I've learned to live without them for extended periods.

I'm having a harder time not being able to worship Her as often as I normally do.

Thankfully one thing remains constant.  I remain locked and pantied for Her.


sissy terrie

Thursday, April 9, 2020

Full Floral Femininty

It's Thursday, when The Daily Panty typically celebrates the beauty and femininity of those women with more assets that others.

I've always been fond of panties with a floral pattern and this one just caught my eye...

Just imagine how pretty they would look in pink?


sissy terri

Wednesday, April 8, 2020

Sissy Bridal Fantasies

Like many other sissies, some of my earliest fantasies involved being dressed in a beautiful wedding dress.  The dress would have a beautiful veil, tiara, a long flowing gown and underneath a very full petticoat.

As I matured and became more "kink aware", my bridal fantasies took on an additional fascination...


💗  sissy terrie 💗

Tuesday, April 7, 2020

The Cuckold in the Corner

Submissive males in a Female Led Marriage often spend time in the corner as part of their discipline, behavior modification, punishment, etc.  Corner time takes on a much deeper form of submission when it's done in the presence of someone else.  Perhaps a close friend of Hers or even Her Alpha Lover.

I've been made to do some very embarrassing things.  Among the most embarrassing or humiliating have the times I've been sent to my designated "cuckold corner" while Diane was with Her former lover Paul.

Each time I was in some form of feminine garb that only served to intensify my feelings and emotion.


sissy terrie

Sunday, April 5, 2020

White Lace

Simple white lace panty today.

One of Mistress Diane's "old" pair.


sissy terri

Friday, April 3, 2020

Introducing The "WIFE" Panty

Rows and rows of ruffles and a pretty satin bow turn a regular panty into weapon of immediate feminization and emasculation (WIFE)....

WIFE panties - the official panty brand for sissy wives.


sissy wife terrie

Thursday, April 2, 2020

Full Cut Panties

A simple white semi-sheer panty is what a wore to bed last night underneath my cream-colored three-quarter length nightgown with a ruffled hem.

The panty covers my chastity device but also serves to make me feel more feminine.


sissy terri 💕

Wednesday, April 1, 2020

FemDom Enterprises

At FemDom Enterprises (FDE) Inc. all the secretaries were men.  The company didn't subscribe to the politically correct term of "administrative assistants" at all.  Those in secretarial positions were referred to in the proper manner.

Job satisfaction among the secretaries was quite high.  Salaries were commensurate but there were other benefits that made the positions (and their occupants) quite attractive.

FDE secretaries received a very generous clothing allowance because of the dress code for secretaries.  In addition, the "gurls" got free hair styling at one of the beauty salons the company owned.  There were other more personal perks for many of the secretaries depending on the needs and wants of their female bosses.

Oh, and the position came with a free subscription to the ever-so-helpful "Sissy Secretary" magazine.


sissy secretary terrie